I think you have a pretty good outlook on this and it’s good that you are recognizing some of the patterns that the male virgins in their 30s and 40s are commenting about. Since you’re still fairly young, at 24, you’re not as bad off as you might think, though it is super important that you get working on this shit right now. It’s something you have to get handled before getting into your late 20s or else it’s going to be exponentially more difficult. Good luck dude and be sure to come back and leave a comment when you lose the big V-card.

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I wish I could get some e-mails from the vaginally non dipped dudes out there, I know I’ve had my sleigh ride but I’ve been off of that ride for a while now and I don’t know when I’ll get to spin again. Don’t be shy with Me I don’t bite, I understand the plight. sewdavicious@verizon.net There’s another girl I like more, so I plan to go after her. She is much more intelligent and more attractive, but like Random said, you need experience to get the more high-status women. You have to at least have an idea of yourself having been with a woman/girl, so you can use that experience as a reference point when you go after the ones you really want.

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Thank you, and I’m glad I stumbled on to this article at this time in my life. I have taken appropriate steps to increase my chances to get laid, but in the end it is all about action. I’ll definitely post a comment if I do succeed, whether it takes a week or a year. agree with Random. I am also 24 and lost it very recently. The girl I did it with was definitely an ‘easy lay’, in the sense that she is a bit naive and inexperienced (though not a virgin before she did me), but I’m happy I did it. I am still seeing her (and getting some useful practice) but don’t plan to keep seeing her for a long time. Even though she has a very nice body (shapely without being fat) I don’t consider her good enough overall.

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As for the older men who have missed the train (35+). There’s no shame in paying a hooker to get laid once in a blue moon. It’s just sex, nothing horrible or amazing is going to happen to you if you do it other than you experiencing the act. Unless you want to be the next Nicola Tesla, Mozart, William Shakespeare or Picasso and want to channel that pent up sexual energy through meditation to invent incredible technological masterpieces, create powerful music, write magnificent scripts and paint beautiful paintings. There really is no other reason to not get laid that is adequate, and I think you can still do the above things if you get laid once in a blue moon.

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I don’t know if I qualify as an “older” male virgin, but I’m 22 and I’ve never had sex. Moreover I’ve never had a girlfriend or kissed a girl, and I’ve only been on a handful of dates. I’m not waiting for marriage or anything, but I would like to have sex only with someone who I was dating exclusively. My failure to have sex is just an extension of my failure to get regular dates/a girlfriend. And the reason for that is just that unless I’m at work (a retail job), I never talk to strange women. The few dates I have been on were with women who pretty much started talking to me first and took the initiative. I guess I’m just scared of making unwanted advances and being assertive around women.

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